Grief does not change you, Hazel. It reveals you. - John Green, The Fault in Our Stars
"Grief does not change you, Hazel. It reveals you."
"Grief does not change you, Hazel. It reveals you."
"And then I crawled into his unmade bed, wrapping myself in his comforter like a cocoon, surrounding myself with his smell. I took out my cannula so I could smell better, breathing him and out, the scent fading even as I lay there, my chest burning until I couldn't distinguish among the pains."
"You do not immortalize the lost by writing about them. Language buries, but does not resurrect."
"I'm a grenade and at some point I'm going to blow up and I would like to minimize the casualties, okay?"
"Without pain, how could we know joy?' This is an old argument in the field of thinking about suffering and its stupidity and lack of sophistication could be plumbed for centuries but suffice it to say that the existence of broccoli does not, in any way, affect the taste of chocolate."
"I went on spouting bullshit Encouragements as Gus's parents, arm in arm, hugged each other and nodded at every word. Funerals, I had decided, are for the living."