#Grief

"I just try to write what I think would really happen, and with grief and tragedy, there are these naturally occurring moments of levity and humor and absurdity. I think that's what life is really like. Sadness gets interrupted, and happiness gets interrupted."

"Each of us has his own rhythm of suffering."

"Why so much grief for me? No man will hurl me down to Death, against my fate. And fate? No one alive has ever escaped it, neither brave man nor coward, I tell you - it’s born with us the day that we are born."

"Every night when I go to bed, I hope that I may never wake again, and every morning renews my grief."

"But when ye come, and all the flowers are dying,If I am dead, as dead I well may be,You'll come and find the place where I am lying,And kneel and say Ave there for me,And I shall hear, though soft you tread above me,And all my grave will warmer, sweeter be,For you will bend and tell me that you love me,And I shall sleep in peace until you come to me"

"Don’t grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form."

"[A] person whose head is bowed and whose eyes are heavy cannot look at the light."

"And I can't be running back and fourth forever between grief and high delight."

"There are no coincidences in life. What person that wandered in and out of your life was there for some purpose, even if they caused you harm. Sometimes, it doesn’t make sense the short periods of time we get with people, or the outcomes from their choices. However, if you turn it over to God he promises that you will see the big picture in the hereafter. Nothing is too small to be a mistake."

"The first rose on my rose-tree Budded, bloomed, and shattered, During sad days when to me Nothing mattered. Grief of grief has drained me clean; Still it seems a pity No one saw,—it must have been Very pretty."

"The pleasure of remembering had been taken from me, because there was no longer anyone to remember with. It felt like losing your co-rememberer meant losing the memory itself, as if the things we'd done were less real and important than they had been hours before."

"The bird is gone, and in what meadow does it now sing?"

"Envy, after all, comes from wanting something that isn't yours. But grief comes from losing something you've already had."

"Hearts rebuilt from hope resurrect dreams killed by hate."

"No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear."

"True regret is knowing you missed your only opportunity to be simply a good friend to someone that was exactly like you."

"This worldthat was our homefor a brief spellnever brought us anythingbut pain and grief;its a shame that not one of our problemswas ever solved.We departwith a thousand regretsin our hearts."

"Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief."

"It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses."

"I will not say, do not weep, for not all tears are an evil."