#letting-go

"Letting him goThere is a particular kind of suffering to be experienced when you love something greater than yourself. A tender sacrifice. Like the pained silence felt in the lost song of a mermaid; or the bent and broken feet of a dancing ballerina. It is in every considered step I am taking in the opposite direction of you."

"Sometimes the door closes on a relationship, not because we failed but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed a tear, turn around and look for the new door that's opened. It's a sign that you're no longer that person you were, it's time to change into who you are. It's going to be okay."

"The more you go with the flow of life and surrender the outcome to God, and the less you seek constant clarity, the more you will find that fabulous things start to show up in your life."

"If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you've made, if they don't realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go."

"A grateful mindset can set you free from the prison of disempowerment and the shackles of misery."

"Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we're settling for."

"It is important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move on."

"If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them."

"No book can ever be finished. While working on it we learn just enough to find it immature the moment we turn away from it"

"One of the simplest ways to stay happy is letting go of the things that makes you sad."

"You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway."

"If you want to fly on the sky, you need to leave the earth. If you want to move forward, you need to let go the past that drags you down."

"To love everyone unconditionally does not mean to give everyone your unconditional time. Sometimes, to love completely, we must never see someone again. This, too, is love. This is giving someone the freedom to exist and be happy, even if it must be without you."

"If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate."

"Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change."

"Sometimes letting go is simply changing the labels you place on an event. Looking at the same event with fresh eyes."

"When you look at the past without God’s eyes, you subject yourself to deception. The past no longer exists and God doesn’t linger there. However, Satan will show you whatever you want to see and believe, so you will be trapped in an emotion that cannot communicate truth, beyond what you want to remember."

"If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind."

"Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over."

"No matter how much suffering you went through, you never wanted to let go of those memories."